Update:
Found a low mileage 2011 x35i with premium, technology, cold weather, convenience, dynamic handling, HUD, premium sound, satellite radio and rear heated seats. Silver on black. A real garage queen with clear bra on the bumper and front of hood/fenders/mirrors. It looks nearly new. Zero door dings, paint chips or curb rash. Silver on black. Strange thing is, almost every one I saw had roof racks, but this one doesn't, even though it had over $13,000 in options and the roof racks option is only $250. I know I can add them, though the parts are nearly $600 and a day of my time to install. I think I'll pass on the racks for now. Really happy with this rare find.
I settled for no sport pkg, all the ones I looked at with sport were weren't in the best shape and there aren't too many to choose from with low mileage.
It's currently getting inspected/detailed/serviced at the dealer prior to picking it up.
Here's some pics before the dealer detailed it: