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Originally Posted by F87LUV
Maybe I am jaded. I've been through a lot of bs.
I can't speak for other people. Just what I'm observing. I'm not that type of person. I won't date a man if I feel that I might stray. If you're realistic and not delusional from the start, it makes things easier. Some people think they can change a person and look past some deal breakers, in the end, you just end up wasting someone else's time and your own.
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Too true. I have a friend who i told to run for the hills when his then GF did some crazy crap. He just told me yesterday that he's getting divorced over the same crazy crap. Sad to see all that time wasted. I'm just trying to get him to see what went wrong and learn from it. For him, he's got to identify people who need "fixing" and move on from them. He's a sucker for that crap and thus, he's been a doormat for all of the women in his life.