First date do's and don'ts - XBimmers

FwdFtl · 05-03-2012, 03:38 PM

For all my heterosexual brothas out there, please share tips on what worked and what didn't work in your dating ups and downs.

My advice is intended for a girl you really want. If it's for a slut, insert an asterisk next to your tip.

DO: open her door
DON'T: call her for at least 2 days after 1st date

*DO: bring your nicest car
*DON'T: keep her sober

Comet · 05-03-2012, 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FwdFtl

DON'T: call her for at least 2 days after 1st date

I never got that.. dumb games are for dumb girls.. so she doesn't think I'm into her? fuck that, I make sure to never be friendzone and let her know that I want her. It ends up working in my favor.

DO: let the chick know you're into her, not assume. Pretty much flat out tell her "I like you and I want to be with you".

it shows confidence and assertive attitude.

grieverr · 05-03-2012, 03:46 PM

DON'T: Play games.
If you actually like her, don't hold off on calling just to wait the 2 days. A quick call the next day just to say how much you enjoyed the date will show her you're thinking of her, and will have her thinking of you as well.
Then you can wait a day or two to call back and have a conversation/set up a 2nd date.

DO: Pay for the date

E90SoFlo · 05-03-2012, 03:50 PM

Do: Be real
Don't

lay games.

Brey335i · 05-03-2012, 04:07 PM

Do: not rely on advice found on Bimmerpost

Don't: make a thread asking for dating advice

FwdFtl · 05-03-2012, 04:53 PM

ok, i can agree, waiting to call is playing games. It works for me everytime, but then again I recycle gf's every 9-12 months

burningchicken · 05-03-2012, 05:00 PM

Do: Lick her butt for an hour.

FwdFtl · 05-03-2012, 05:03 PM

^^

Don't: Use syrup

GetSomeE92 · 05-03-2012, 05:09 PM

^

Do: Use jelly.

Augenbrauezug · 05-03-2012, 05:18 PM

Look her in the eye, don't stare, but make good eye contact.

TotalPower · 05-03-2012, 05:28 PM

be yourself. If you're not yourself, and she likes it, then you have to keep up the lie. If she doesn't then you'll wonder what if she liked the real you

FwdFtl · 05-03-2012, 05:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TotalPower

be yourself. If you're not yourself, and she likes it, then you have to keep up the lie. If she doesn't then you'll wonder what if she liked the real you

this.

Digital.James · 05-03-2012, 05:33 PM

don't talk too much, but don't be too quiet. chicks like guys who listen.
***do get her to drop some e... ***don't pay for the e...

accordingi2ime · 05-03-2012, 07:39 PM

Do... be confident
Don't... try too hard

Do... make complement (try to be sincere about it)
Don't... play with your phone too much (text with other people)

Wakka · 05-03-2012, 10:41 PM

Someone didn't read the OP

MARIO K · 05-04-2012, 12:09 AM

Don't bust out a Papa John's coupon

aestheticstorm · 05-04-2012, 12:58 AM

My only "down" is dating American women. So so happy I'm engaged to a foreign woman who doesn't play any of the bullshit games American women do. It has been a breeze and I'm very happy.

DJDeez · 05-04-2012, 04:54 AM

Do be attractive.

Don't be unattractive.

Ammonia · 05-04-2012, 06:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aestheticstorm

My only "down" is dating American women. So so happy I'm engaged to a foreign woman who doesn't play any of the bullshit games American women do. It has been a breeze and I'm very happy.

Haha, sometimes I joke with my wife about that.

"Man, I should have married that model from Guyana"

Sara504 · 05-04-2012, 08:41 AM

The dont call her thing is bs... You take me out on a date and then no contact? No thanks.

Sara504 · 05-04-2012, 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by accordingi2ime

Do... be confident
Don't... try too hard

Do... make complement (try to be sincere about it)
Don't... play with your phone too much (text with other people)

THIS.

Simsims · 05-04-2012, 08:47 AM

DO: smile
DONT: forget about protection

05-03-2012, 03:38 PM	#1
FwdFtl Cocaine Biceps Drives: E60 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Cali Posts: 181 iTrader: (0)	First date do's and don'ts For all my heterosexual brothas out there, please share tips on what worked and what didn't work in your dating ups and downs. My advice is intended for a girl you really want. If it's for a slut, insert an asterisk next to your tip. DO: open her door DON'T: call her for at least 2 days after 1st date DO: bring your nicest car DON'T: keep her sober
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05-03-2012, 03:46 PM	#3
grieverr Private First Class Drives: '09 335 coupe Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 167 iTrader: (0)	DON'T: Play games. If you actually like her, don't hold off on calling just to wait the 2 days. A quick call the next day just to say how much you enjoyed the date will show her you're thinking of her, and will have her thinking of you as well. Then you can wait a day or two to call back and have a conversation/set up a 2nd date. DO: Pay for the date __________________ Spending on gas is like paying for a ticket to ride a rollercoaster - Crazy Bimmer

05-03-2012, 03:50 PM	#4
E90SoFlo Banned Drives: E90 335i Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Naples, FL Posts: 2,682 iTrader: (9)	Do: Be real Don'tlay games.

05-04-2012, 12:09 AM	#16
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05-04-2012, 12:58 AM	#17
aestheticstorm Lieutenant Drives: '08 Z4 M Coupé Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Boise, ID Posts: 558 iTrader: (2)	My only "down" is dating American women. So so happy I'm engaged to a foreign woman who doesn't play any of the bullshit games American women do. It has been a breeze and I'm very happy. __________________ #1765/1815 — 1 of 68 Sepang Bronze / Black Nappa / Madeira Wood 19" Advan RS / AP Racing / Autosolutions / R.E. Diablo / R.E. trans mounts / CF Grills / CDV Delete

05-03-2012, 04:07 PM	#5
Brey335i Brigadier General Drives: e46 ///M3 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 4,741 iTrader: (11)	Do: not rely on advice found on Bimmerpost Don't: make a thread asking for dating advice

05-03-2012, 04:53 PM	#6
FwdFtl Cocaine Biceps Drives: E60 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Cali Posts: 181 iTrader: (0)	ok, i can agree, waiting to call is playing games. It works for me everytime, but then again I recycle gf's every 9-12 months

05-03-2012, 05:00 PM	#7
burningchicken Lieutenant Drives: 2007 e90 335i Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: noVA, Virginia Tech Posts: 426 iTrader: (5)	Do: Lick her butt for an hour.

05-03-2012, 05:03 PM	#8
FwdFtl Cocaine Biceps Drives: E60 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Cali Posts: 181 iTrader: (0)	^^ Don't: Use syrup

05-03-2012, 05:09 PM	#9
GetSomeE92 Captain Drives: '09 Space Gray E92 Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Miami, FL Posts: 860 iTrader: (3)	^ Do: Use jelly.

05-03-2012, 05:28 PM	#11
TotalPower Lieutenant Drives: 2011 335is Vert AW Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 467 iTrader: (0)	be yourself. If you're not yourself, and she likes it, then you have to keep up the lie. If she doesn't then you'll wonder what if she liked the real you

05-03-2012, 05:33 PM	#13
Digital.James Colonel Drives: E92 M3 Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NC Posts: 2,595 iTrader: (7)	don't talk too much, but don't be too quiet. chicks like guys who listen. *do get her to drop some e... *don't pay for the e...

05-03-2012, 07:39 PM	#14
accordingi2ime First Lieutenant Drives: e90 M3 Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 306 iTrader: (1)	Do... be confident Don't... try too hard Do... make complement (try to be sincere about it) Don't... play with your phone too much (text with other people)

05-04-2012, 04:54 AM	#18
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05-04-2012, 08:41 AM	#20
Sara504 ///Miss E92 Drives: 2013 335is Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: California Posts: 17,197 iTrader: (6)	The dont call her thing is bs... You take me out on a date and then no contact? No thanks. __________________ 2013 335is-Current 2011 335i -Sold 4/132006 325i-Sold 7/11

05-04-2012, 08:47 AM	#22
Simsims Lieutenant Drives: 119/220 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ottawa Posts: 562 iTrader: (0)	DO: smile DONT: forget about protection __________________ VO 1M - everything except sunroof RIP BSM 135i 2009-2011

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