Well I got the news that even if I wanted to change it I can't because the vehicle went into production today..
Life's funny like that. This morning it wasn't supposed to yet and now it suddenly is.
Well now I don't have to strain myself making a decision, it was made for me. Maybe it's something I can get in a future bmw vehicle IF the X3 does what it supposed to and plays nice and doesn't make me hate the brand
Call me silly but I'm loyal to what actually works vs brand
Thanks for the responses guys/gals hopefully someone else who is split on a decision may find this useful.