Car washes... chemicals... Nooooooooooooooooooo
Wash the car well (by hand, the old fashioned way) after a good rinse, dry immediately with a soft clean microfiber towel.
If the stains are still there and look like an oily stain, then try rubbing a little Goo Gone over the area - lightly - with your finger. Then clean that off with a damp microfiber or "speed shine" type product. If it looks like a water stain or similar and won't come off that way, you may need to use clay. This is not for the faint of heart - so do your research on how to do it. It will be especially tricky on such a narrow area.
Once you get the stains/spots off - seal it or wax it. If you use Turtle Wax Ice, you don't have to worry about a little getting on the rubber seals - it won't show or create that dried on wax look.
Good luck!!